I’m sure a developmental psychologist would have a field day analysing how my upbringing shaped me into a ‘people-pleaser’ as an adult.
Though I’m often not fully aware of it, when I pause and reflect on my actions, I realise they are frequently driven by a desire to make others happy—or to ensure they think well of me. And I have a feeling I’m not alone in this!
The desire to please or impress others is a powerful force.